Are you tired of the standard ‘guy on top, girl on bottom’ style of sex act? These creative sex moves will put a new twist on the missionary style. Go for it!
• The cat. This is a technical term for what sex experts describe as the “coital alignment technique.” Here, the man mounts the woman, but he is not fully into her! “Have him scoot up two inches so that the base of his penis is directly aligned with your clitoris,” says sex therapist, Dr. Ian Kerner. “Then, with your legs wrapped around his thighs, press your genitals together so you create pressure and counter-pressure, moving in a gentle rocking motion (as opposed to in and out). Your clitoris will let you know when you’ve got it right.
• Dig deep. While he’s on top, draw your knees toward your chest and place one or both of your feet flat on his chest. “Doing so puts the tip of his penis in direct contact with your cervix, a sensation many women find pleasurable,” says Sadie Allison, author of Ride ‘Em Cowgirl.
• Keep your legs closed. It sounds counterintuitive, but keeping your legs closed can actually boost your pleasure. Once he’s inside you, bring your legs together (keep them straight) so that his legs are on the outside of yours. Then squeeze your thighs together to create friction against his shaft and your vaginal lips while he grinds (not thrusts) into your vagina. “The entrance to the vagina — namely the outer and inner labia — is packed with nerve endings that are activated by this type of shallow penetration,” says Allison.
• Prop up. “Place a pillow under your lower back to tilt your vagina upward,” says Paget. “His penis will hit that top frontal wall where the G-spot is located.” For extra pleasure, try placing your palms on his butt to control the pace and rhythm of movement.